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TRANSCRIPT FROM THE FEBRUARY 14 "THE BACHELOR" TELECONFERENCE WITH ASHLEE
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Operator: Welcome to ABC's The Bachelor call with Mitch Messinger as the leader. This call is being recorded. By staying on this call, you are confirming that you consent to this recording. If you do not wish to be recorded, please disconnect the call at this time. Thank you.
Mr. Messinger, you may begin your call.
Mitch Messinger: Thank you. Welcome, everybody, and good morning and good afternoon, to those folks on the East Coast. Thanks for being here today.
As you know I'm not Cathy Rehl, but I'm the other half of the ABC publicity team on behalf of The Bachelor.
We had another great week of the show on Monday, and we anticipate another great episode this coming Monday. Just another friendly reminder that we have our "Sean Tells All" special on Tuesday, February 19th, at 9 o'clock to 10 o'clock, Eastern and Pacific time.
And right now I would like to welcome AshLee Frazier calling from Houston, Texas, today. Again, AshLee, A-s-h L-e-e, Frazier is spelled F-r-a-z-i-e-r. She is still in the running to win Sean's heart, and with that we can start questions right away.
Operator: Thank you, ladies and gentlemen. If you would like to ask a question, please press star, then the number one on your telephone keypad. Again, star, one, to ask a question.
Your first question comes from Carrie Bell from People magazine.
Carrie Bell: Good morning, AshLee.
AshLee Frazier: Hi.
Carrie Bell: How are you doing?
AshLee Frazier: I'm good. How are you?
Carrie Bell: Good. So this week's episode was full of fireworks between you and resident drama queen Tierra. And, you know, what - at the - you know, toward the end, they seemed to build up this anticipation where you thought, I don't know, it could be me, it could be me, he might be mad at me for, you know, talking to him about Tierra.
Was that, sort of, over-dramatic based on editing, or did you really feel like it was possible that you could go home for speaking up?
AshLee : Absolutely not. One hundred percent, I was scared. I thought this might be the time I go home.
Carrie Bell: OK. Umm, why did you think that? Because - I mean, you seemed like you had such a good date and he had asked you your opinion, and, you know - I mean, you even told him you loved him. I mean, it seemed like you were pretty safe.
AshLee Frazier: Yeah, I felt safe until the argument happened. And really, almost until Sean came in to the rose ceremony and said that he didn't want anybody with these dramatic spells in his life. And I thought, you know, I'm part of that. And it's just - it's such a high intense moment, I got scared.
And I thought, I'm not even going to get a chance to talk to him? I'm not going to get a chance to explain my side of this? Because there was no cocktail party. That's when I got nervous and scared.
Carrie Bell: OK. And I don't - was wondering if you saw - one of the things Tierra yelled at you was, you know, "I can get engaged to any guy I want. I could be engaged if I want to." And lo and behold, yesterday, it turns out she announces that she is engaged already, on the, you know, day after she gets kicked out, it comes to light that she's engaged.
And I was wondering if you saw that news, if you're surprised by that news, if you think you wish her well. What are your thoughts on that?
AshLee Frazier: I did hear about that, but to be honest with you, I don't know anything. You know how rumors are. And, no, if she is, then I wish her all the best. But I don't really know any details on that.
Carrie Bell: OK, so she never talked about this guy or anything like that?
AshLee Frazier: Not to me. I don't really know who it is, so I don't know if it is somebody she talked to me about or if it's not, because I don't know who it is. ...
Carrie Bell: All right. Were you surprised that she got engaged so fast?
AshLee Frazier: Whether it's true or not, I don't know. But if it is true, no. I mean, it's Tierra. I wouldn't be surprised.
Carrie Bell: Well, she is worth the bit of drama. So, well, thank you.
AshLee Frazier: Yeah, she's - let's keep it going, right?
Carrie Bell: Yeah, exactly. Thank you.
AshLee Frazier: That's all right.
Operator: Your next question comes from Beth Kwiatkowski from Reality TV World.
Beth Kwiatkowski: Hi, AshLee, how are you doing?
AshLee Frazier: Oh, I'm good. How are you?
Beth Kwiatkowski: Great. So, during Monday night's episode, you opened up to Sean about how you had gotten married once before, in high school, as a type of rebellious act since you were, you know, going through a tough time with your family.
Could you talk a little bit more about, you know, your marital status, specifically how it ended? Like, did you get a divorce, or an annulment? Like, how did that work?
AshLee Frazier: Yes. It was actually a divorce. The details really are pretty simple. I was young, just making a bad decision in my life. You know, we - I guess we all go through things, and maybe I just didn't handle it the best way I should have.
It wasn't a bad breakup at all. It was just kind of like, "Oops. What did I do?" I woke up and I was, like, "Oh, man, I think I made a bad decision." We discussed it, and I think we both came to the conclusion that we had just made a bad decision.
Beth Kwiatkowski: OK. Great. And, you know, the show made it look like your argument with Tierra ended seconds before Sean walked up to your suite and through the door. Was that actually the case? Because Tierra seemed fairly calm by the time Sean actually approached her to talk.
AshLee Frazier: No, that's the case. He came in fairly quickly. I couldn't give you the exact minute. It was fairly quick after that that he did come in, yeah.
Beth Kwiatkowski: OK. Perfect. Thank you.
AshLee Frazier: Sure.
Operator: Your next question comes from Caryn Robbins from BroadwayWorld TV.
Caryn Robbins: Hi, AshLee, how are you?
AshLee Frazier: Hi. How are you? I'm good.
Caryn Robbins: Thanks. I was wondering, during the argument with Tierra, were you surprised that the other girls didn't step in and give you more support, considering they had very similar grievances?
AshLee Frazier: Umm, you know, in the moment, to be honest with you, no. That's not what was going through my mind, whether they were going to jump in or not. I'm a pretty strong person, and felt I could just hold my own. I didn't really need them to step in.
But the thing is I had a fairly decent relationship with her in the house, versus some of the other girls. And I personally felt I had a leg to stand on against her. "You were my friend. Why are you doing this? I've tried to help you out."
And so, you know, it didn't really faze me one way or another that they didn't step in. Of course, who wouldn't like it? But it wasn't a problem that they didn't.
Caryn Robbins: OK. And then I was wondering if you were surprised to hear at the end of the episode this week, Catherine said that - she was crying and she said that she felt Lesley was a much better match for Sean than she was. But were you surprised to hear her lack of self-confidence?
AshLee Frazier: Um, the two girls, Catherine and Lesley, were fairly good friends on the show. And I think she was really sad to see her friend go. I think that was part of it.
I don't see it as lack of confidence, though. I think she was just really sad. And, you know, it's hard. Those rose ceremonies are hard. I mean, you see somebody that you're close to leave. You know, sometimes, depending on how close you are, you may question whether you're right.
Caryn Robbins: Mm-hmm. Now that makes more sense. Thank so much.
AshLee Frazier: You're welcome.
Operator: Your next question comes from Shari Von Holten from HaveUHeard.
Shari Von Holten: Hi, AshLee.
AshLee Frazier: Hi, Shari.
Shari Von Holten: I just wanted to know if Tierra is as bad as she seems. Was it, like, an editing job, or is she really that dramatic?
AshLee Frazier: Well, I can definitely tell you it's not editing.
Shari Von Holten: OK.
AshLee Frazier: It was definitely obvious. She's very dramatic.
Shari Von Holten: OK. And she really wasn't friends with any - like, really, that friendly with anyone in the house?
AshLee Frazier: Um, you know, to be honest, we all tried to get along with her. At one point or another, I would say if not all, the majority of the girls individually reached out to try to build a relationship with her. And, I mean, it just didn't really work well in her favor. You know, you reach out to her and she didn't want any part of it. So.
Shari Von Holten: OK. And that's it. Happy Valentine's Day.
AshLee Frazier: Happy Valentine's Day.
Shari Von Holten: That's it for me. Thank you.
AshLee Frazier: Thank you.
Operator: Your next question comes from Rebecca Fontana from Life and Style.
Rebecca Fontana: Hi, AshLee. How are you?
AshLee Frazier: I'm good. How are you?
Rebecca Fontana: Good. So, my question is why do you think you mesh so well with Sean?
AshLee Frazier: I would say because we come from the same background. We have very similar strong family upbringing and I felt at the end of the day that that - this solid foundation that would have built a perfect relationship.
Rebecca Fontana: Mm-hmm. And are there specifics about your personality that make you compatible?
AshLee Frazier: Um, you know, sometimes I feel as though, you know, you have to balance each other out. And I felt that what, from the very beginning, was possible to make a relationship in this. And I think it was just a yin to a yang. And that's how it fit together.
Rebecca Fontana: And do you see that sort of connection with him and any of the other girls, too? I know we're getting now to, like, only a few left.
AshLee Frazier: Right. Yeah. I see the possibility of connections with the other girls, yeah.
Rebecca Fontana: Mm-hmm. And what qualities does he have that will make him a great husband?
AshLee Frazier: Again, you know, he's very family oriented. I know he wants children. For me, it was the fact that he wants to adopt, and his sister, as well. And so that was a big factor that played well for my heart to hear.
Rebecca Fontana: Yeah. And what about anything, like, in his personality, as far as what kind of guy he is, as far as like, funny? Or anything like that, that made him compatible with you?
AshLee Frazier: Yeah. I mean, he's definitely funny. He makes me laugh all the time. He just has good character. I think with me he showed just a very classy side to him and, you know, I just - he was very charismatic with me. And I appreciated that.
Rebecca Fontana: Mm-hmm. All right, thank you so much, AshLee.
AshLee Frazier: Thank you.
Operator: Your next question comes from Lauren Wong from KI TV.
Lauren Wang: Hey, AshLee. How are you?
AshLee Frazier: I'm good, thank you.
Lauren Wang: So, what did you girls do on your free time? Is there any funny story or inside scoop story that you can kind of tell us about what you guys did that we didn't see on the show yet, or we haven't seen?
AshLee Frazier: Yeah. We did a lot of the typical girly things, hair, makeup. Just talked about family, our lives back home. A lot, a lot of Apples to Apples. (Inaudible) we did a lot of Apples to Apples games.
Lauren Wang: And how hard was it, maybe, like hearing about other girls' dates, hearing about their feelings for Sean? Was it hard not to get jealous? Because all you guys seem super close.
AshLee Frazier: Right. Personally speaking, I didn't have a hard time with it, because at the end of the day, I knew the type of foundation that I shared with Sean. And I wasn't fazed one time. Granted, minus last week because of the drama, but other than that, I never felt my relationship with him wavered. And I was very confident.
So, the girls are very respectful. Nobody rubbed it in anybody's face, what happened. We would ask, "Oh, what did you do?" because you always want to know how it plays with the date card.
Lauren Wang: Mm-hmm.
AshLee Frazier: So - no, everybody was very respectful with each other, and nobody crossed the line.
Lauren Wang: OK. Thank you.
AshLee Frazier: Thank you.
Operator: Your next question comes from Kaitlyn Monteiro from OK Magazine.
Kaitlyn Monteiro: Hi, AshLee.
AshLee Frazier: Hi.
Kaitlyn Monteiro: So I have to ask. You were talking about - what - why you and Sean mesh. So (inaudible) the importance of Sean being a born-again virgin, but (inaudible) was it this wholesome nature of his, I mean, that attracted you to him? And, why or why not?
AshLee Frazier: Well, I mean, I can't speak on the virgin part, I mean, but more his business than mine. But I would say . . .
Kaitlyn Monteiro: Hmm.
AshLee Frazier: . . . at the end of the day I just felt we were compatible. And there was - it's not just one thing, but when you're around somebody and you feel comfortable, you know, I think that's the key. You just feel you can be yourself and you can have fun. And I felt I could be myself around him.
Kaitlyn Monteiro: Absolutely. And you've got to spend so much time with him, and (inaudible) going into home town dates, so we were wondering. What's one thing you loved about spending time with Sean and what's one thing that kind of got on your nerves? And why?
AshLee Frazier: Got on my nerves, and one thing about what?
Kaitlyn Monteiro: Excuse me?
AshLee Frazier: What was the question, I'm sorry?
Kaitlyn Monteiro: Oh, sorry. What's one thing you love about Sean, and what's one thing that he did that got on your nerves? And why?
AshLee Frazier: Well, I can't really say anything specific that got on my nerves. I mean, clearly giving out roses every week to other girls, I mean, nobody likes that, right?
One thing that I love about Sean was just - was how solid he was with me. He seemed like a very solid gentleman.
Kaitlyn Monteiro: Absolutely. And one question being, what's been the biggest (inaudible) for you all watching the episodes back, and why?
AshLee Frazier: The biggest what?
Kaitlyn Monteiro: The biggest surprise, like, watching the episodes back. Was there something that you didn't know was going on while you were in the house with the girls? Or . . . .
AshLee Frazier: No. I don't feel I was - I've been surprised by anything. I mean, nothing comes to mind right now.
Kaitlyn Monteiro: OK. Thank you so much.
AshLee Frazier: OK. All right. Bye-bye.
Operator: Your next question comes from Amber James from US Weekly.
Amber James: Hi, AshLee. How are you?
AshLee Frazier: Hi, Amber. I'm good.
Amber James: So, yeah, I want to know, can you make the case for each of the final women? Yourself, Catherine, Desiree, and Lindsay, and why Sean might pick each one?
AshLee Frazier: OK. Well, Lindsay is very fun. I mean, she's always cracking jokes.
Amber James: OK
AshLee Frazier: Desiree has a very - sense of stability. Catherine just seems to have a big heart. So those would be my descriptives.
Amber James: And your - and how about yourself?
AshLee Frazier: Any myself? I think with Sean and I it was just about building a relationship on a strong foundation.
Amber James: OK. Now, is there any reason why he might not pick one of the final four? There - kind of do the flip side of that question.
AshLee Frazier: I don't know. I know at the very beginning Sean said that he wanted somebody that's genuine, nice, ready for marriage, and, you know, somebody that has a good heart and that loves family, and, of course, as I said before, it that's what he wanted, then obviously I have to say I'm the best match for that.
Amber James: OK. All right. Well, thank you so much.
AshLee Frazier: OK. Thank you.
Operator: Your next question comes from Erin Humphrey from Rumorfix.com.
Erin Humphrey: Hi, AshLee. How are you?
AshLee Frazier: Oh, I'm good. How are you?
Erin Humphrey: Good. Thanks for asking. I actually wanted to know how did it make you feel, and what was your reaction, when Tierra kind of pointed out in a rude way that, you know, you're 32 and not married, and that she hopes when she is that age, she will be. How did that make you feel? That was kind of a rude jab on her part.
AshLee Frazier: Umm, well, I didn't know until I actually saw the show. I laughed. Because, I mean, what are you going to do? I'm 32. I've never thought about my age so much in my life, considering the episode.
So, I mean, I really can't - what am I going to do? Go back in time and not be 32? So, I mean, I can't think twice about it. It doesn't bother me.
Erin Humphrey: OK, thanks. And how - also, she accused you of kind of being high school-ish and, you know, talking with the girls, like you were in high school. What was that all about? And also how did that make you feel?
AshLee Frazier: Um, well, I mean, I think we can see for ourselves who's acting immature. And, you know, it just - I don't really have anything to say about it. I mean, it's just not a very nice thing for her to say.
Erin Humphrey: OK.
AshLee Frazier: And now (inaudible) difference in her character and my character.
Erin Humphrey: All right. And lastly, have you guys talked since she left the show?
AshLee Frazier: No. Legally, you cannot talk, so.
Erin Humphrey: Oh, OK. Gotcha. Thanks. Thanks, AshLee.
AshLee Frazier: OK.
Erin Humphrey: Take care.
AshLee Frazier: Thank you.
Operator: once again, if anyone would like to ask a question, please press star, then the number one. You have a follow-up from Beth Kwiatkowski from Reality TV World.
Beth Kwiatkowski: Hi, again, AshLee.
AshLee Frazier: Hi.
Beth Kwiatkowski: So, throughout the season, you know, some viewers have been saying they think you might be a little too intense for Sean. And when we talked to Sarah earlier on, she had all wonderful things to say about you.
But she kind of mentioned that you weren't really as fun as the other girls and, you know, Sean might have been looking for, kind of, that, you know, fun, goof ball type of personality.
So I just want to get your reaction and thoughts on that.
AshLee Frazier: well, when it came to my relationship with Sean, I did take that a little bit more serious, because this is my future. This is marriage, and that's not something I want to tread into lightly.
But for the most part, I'm not really sure where that comes from. I had a blast. I joked, I laughed. Danielle was there. I mean - I mean, Danielle (inaudible). I mean, we all had such a blast, and we played games, and - surely joked all the time. So I'm not really sure where she gets that from.
Beth Kwiatkowski: OK. Sure. And what made you decide to wait so long about your first marriage? Like, was there something in the back of your mind where you were waiting for, like an opportune time?
And also, I guess, was Sean as nonchalant about it as he seemed? I didn't know if he maybe had more follow-up questions for you that just didn't get shown on the air.
AshLee Frazier: No, that's a very good question. I think - obviously I wasn't going to tell him on our very first date. That just didn't seem appropriate for me. Because I want to know somebody before I divulge my story to them.
So I wanted to make sure I was feeling everything correctly and the vibe was there. And then every other time in between, it was either a group date or the rose ceremony, and that just wasn't the appropriate time to actually say, "OK, I have something serious to talk to you about."
And so that's why I waited until that date to talk to him.
Beth Kwiatkowski: OK. And just as a follow-up, you know, was Sean as nonchalant about it as he seemed? You know, did he have more follow-up questions for you, I guess, that didn't get shown on air?
AshLee Frazier: You know, I feel like he asked a few more questions. He was as great as the show shows. He was so genuine and loving to me, and made me feel like a huge weight had lifted off and, you know, made me feel like it's OK.
Beth Kwiatkowski: OK. Great. Thanks, AshLee.
AshLee Frazier: Thank you.
Operator: The next question is a follow-up from Carrie Bell from People magazine.
Carrie Bell: I was wondering, you know-(inaudible) we talk about, you know, whether people are there for the right reasons. And you've, kind of, been making that - you, you know, all along, you wanted to make sure your relationship had a strong foundation, and that you took it seriously because it was your future which all makes a lot of sense to me.
Because it - it always seems to me like there are a lot of people who take it not very seriously. And then I think - well, it's supposed to end in an engagement and marriage and a possible future together. It seems like that's something you should (inaudible) take seriously.
Do you feel like - that the whole time when you're watching Sean kind of build relationships with other girls, and then you're seeing other girls reactions to it, do you think that everyone there now, who's left, at this point in the show, is capable or ready for marriage?
AshLee Frazier: You know, I really don't know, because I really just can vouch for myself. I mean, if they say they are, I want to take it for face value and say, "Of course, you are." I would hope anybody that would come on to the show would be ready.
But honestly, I can only speak for myself, and say 100 percent, you know, I was completely ready to give my heart to somebody and fall in love.
Carrie Bell: Um, does it ever make you waver when you, kind of, looked at it and saw the other girls that he was continuing forward with or was interested in. Because for the longest time, you know, he seemed to really be into Tierra, for one example. And it seemed kind of like if they were polar opposites for, like, everyone, and then Tierra . . . .
AshLee Frazier: Yeah.
Carrie Bell: To me, I'd feel like, I would be like, "Wait a second. If he likes her and her antics and her, you know, surprising, or her drama, her falling in a river and being cold, you know, whatever - if he's into that, then how can he really be into me?"
AshLee Frazier: That's a good question. You know, I kind of just felt like I had to put my own mind set on one thing. And that was my relationship with Sean.
And I could not sit in that house and wonder, "Oooh. Why is he keeping Tierra? Why is he . . ." - you can't think like that. You have to really compartmentalize your feelings and your mind set into focusing on what is really going to happen at the end of all this.
And I knew Sean was smart. He'd eventually realize, at one point or another, somehow, I knew he'd come to and realize it. So, it wasn't something during that time I allowed myself to focus on.
Carrie Bell: ... And then, not to hammer this home, but since you guys are the closest people to, you know, the other girls that we can talk to, with Tierra - I mean, it seems like this engagement thing was really quick. And so, obviously, I guess she was ready to get married, or ready to get engaged.
And I'm wondering if you think that - is this just more, like, of her drama side, to, you know, be like, "Oh, I'm engaged." So the minute I get kicked off the show, the public just sees that I'm engaged and I'm happy, and I don't care, I didn't need the show. I don't need Sean. I don't - you know, like, ha-ha on you.
Do you feel like it seems like it's more of a, I don't know, a publicity play or a, you know . . .
AshLee Frazier: Honestly, it wouldn't surprise me if that was the case. But I - you know, again, I just heard about this. So I can't say one way or another. I wish I did know, to tell you. But I don't - I just don't know.
Carrie Bell: It just seems all very convenient to me. It's like, "Oh, I guess she's off the show. Oops, surprise, I'm married - or I'm engaged!" You know, like - it just seems very, like . . .
AshLee Frazier: Yeah, I mean, it may just be a hoax. Who knows? With Tierra, I mean, we can't really put too much past her.
Carrie Bell: OK. Stay tuned.
Operator: Your next question is a follow-up from Beth Kwiatkowski from Reality TV World.
Beth Kwiatkowski: AshLee, going back to the comments that Catherine had at the end of Monday night's episode, when she was very tearful, you said she was very close friends with Lesley, and that's probably where those comments came from.
But I guess, like, since she was worried that Lesley had more in common with Sean than herself, do you think that's kind of sign she's maybe not the right girl? Or, you know, the right fit for Sean?
AshLee Frazier: Oh, no. I mean, I couldn't say that. You know, honestly, I don't know her relationship with Sean. We all kept our relationships with him private. But I would definitely not say - I would say it was about, for the most part, her friend was leaving the house.
Beth Kwiatkowski: OK. And based upon what you knew personally of Catherine and Lesley, do you have any idea what qualities or commonalities Lesley might have shared with Sean that Catherine didn't? Like, do you have any idea, or . . . .
AshLee Frazier: No, no. I'm not sure what she's referring to.
Beth Kwiatkowski: OK. And, you know, why did you originally apply for The Bachelor? And did you know, going into the show that it was going to be Sean?
AshLee Frazier: Umm, so I had a friend that nominated me. And the very following week I heard from casting. So, it wasn't too long after that when I did find out it was Sean. And that's when I really started to allow myself to, kind of, crush on this guy and, you know, look into, like - "Hmm, OK, what's this guy about?" And ask questions about who he is. And so, yeah, I knew it was Sean going into it.
Beth Kwiatkowski: Great. Thanks so much, AshLee, and best of luck with everything.
AshLee Frazier: Thanks, Beth.
Operator: And I show no further questions at this time.
AshLee Frazier: OK.
Mitch Messinger: Well, thank you, everybody, for joining us today. If you have any questions you can always call me at 818-460-6532, or e-mail me at
mitchell.c.messinger@abc.com. Otherwise we hope you have a good week, and watch The Bachelor on Monday. Thanks, everyone.
AshLee Frazier: Bye.
Operator: Ladies and gentlemen this does conclude today's conference. Thank you for participating. You may now disconnect.
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