OMG, they have me defending Andi over there.
There were signs of stress since October. For almost the full month of October Josh didn't acknowledge his family on SM, which for the Murrays is very odd. Especially since this included MM's birthday, I believe.
It seemed when Andi was maid of honor in her law school friends wedding that Josh went to FL and had a come to Jesus with MM. After that he started posting about his family again.
Two tiny signs of tension from AC, two of the posters at the other board went to AC and met them and spent time with them. They both said both were very loving and genuine and nice. But they had spent the day time separately and I guess when Andi was asked about her shoes she had been shopping and bought Burberry shoes, and was sheepish about telling Josh. I have a feeling Andi's shopping habits may have been a slight issue. The bigger issue is that the women were telling Josh they needed to get married and have babies and Josh agreed and said tell her that. I think this may have been a really big issue.
I believe Andi was willing to get married, but I don't think she was ready to start having babies. She posted if she knew she would look like Blake Lively while pregnant she would get pregnant, but truthfully, she has worked hard for her body and I don't think right now she wanted to either be pregnant and/or tied down like a child would make them. She was enjoy the travel and the opportunities. I don't think she was ready to settle down into baby makes three life yet.
And honestly, that is okay. As much as I don't like Andi, I really believe she tried to want exactly what Josh wanted, but she just doesn't right now.
She is 27, I think she should figure out what she wants as a career and what makes her happy and I applaud her for being mature enough to recognize that she isn't ready to be a mom yet.
If this was a huge issue for them, then unfortunately, they just aren't right for each other right now. Maybe once she figures out what she wants and is ready to settle down they can come back to each other, but I am glad she was strong enough to stand up and not give into the pressure.
I gave in. I married the first time when I shouldn't have and it was a huge mistake. You can love someone and your goals and dreams just not be compatible. Good for her for not faking it.